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Two Years of Marriage

Yes, we are that cheesy couple who were married on Valentines weekend. ;) I cannot believe how fast time has flown by. I mean it has, and it hasn't. Year one was tough, nobody warned me how tough marriage can be and my expectations were super high going into it. but we got through it. And then year two... year two was amazing. it's like we just figured out how to do this thing! i am sure, of course, there will be ups and downs, but gosh am i lucky to have found matt, and to share my life with him. I really thought when i was a little girl, and even on my wedding day, that marriage was like a fairy-tale, and it's not, but it's even better in so many ways. 

We have so many exciting things coming in year three, and the best part is that i get to do it all with matt (& claude!) i had this really small, but really powerful moment the other day before matt left on a trip for a week. i smelled his skin and gripped his arm and thought how empty i would be without him. and i prayed for a second (and i'm not really a religious person) that he would always be there. the longer we're together, the more it really sinks in how lucky we are. Happy 2nd anniversary matty.


  1. Beautiful words... You got this guys! Happy 2nd anniversary and may the Year 3 be the best one so far! :)

  2. Awe these photos are so cute happy anniversary

  3. Happy anniversary! And I wish you another 100 happy years together. I know the things you are writing about, me and my boyfriend are living together for almost two years, and I remember how hard it was at the beginning to get used to ourselves and our habits and different day routines. But it only made us stronger and now I know I want to be with Him to the end of my life. This is love!

  4. Happy anniversary <3
    And may all good be with you in the future too :)

    Best Michaela

  5. Lovely photos
    nice post :)

  6. Beauitufl post! So cute photos
    Happy V day

    kisses Adela Acanski

  7. That is so poetic, the way you described that moment :) Happy Anniversary!

    Lauren Lalipop

  8. Nice photos :)
    Maria V.


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