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I'm Steffy, and I live in my favorite place on earth, Long Beach NY with my two loves & our dachshund. In this space we share our adventures around NY, cozy days at home and tons of outfits! Grab a cup of coffee and lets get to know each other!


NYC Days Off

Lately, I just feel kind of blank. I'm not even uninspired, that's the weird part. I feel SUPER inspired, with a wealth of ideas and the drive to make these idea happen, but feelings-wise I'm blank. Maybe as you grow up, you learn to unfeel because feeling can be hard. As good as it feels to feel, it is equal parts bad. Every day I get the privilege to see beautiful places and scenery (& i think to myself WOW this is a moment right now), and I snap these photos, and I feel nothing. I'm not on a grind, my life is beautifully unpredictable, but I just want more. I always want more.

I can't figure out if that is a good thing, and the driving force behind where I am today, or if it is bad. Why can't I just sit back and enjoy things, without always planning ahead? I'm trying to be here in this moment because I know these moments pass us by so quickly. Here's a day off when my brother visited, it was a lovely day, one I'll probably remember forever. ♥


  1. Lovely photos! Maybe meditation will help the flat feelings? It helps me
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  2. It looks like you guys had a great day off

  3. Sometimes it's so hard to live in the moment! I know it's definitely been like that for me recently. My mind is so caught up on planning for the future that I don't stop to enjoy the beautiful things that are happening all around me right now. Just stay mindful of the present and maybe after a while it'll help. :)

  4. lovely <3
    i love your coat !

  5. Very pretty outfit! I think this kind of sweater with stripes will never come out of fashion.
    See my winter outfit from vintage pieces (link)

  6. Beautiful pictures and great outfit! So in love with the dark blue coat! <3 | VOGUE et VOYAGE on Facebook

  7. Love the bright red lipstick and I adore your hair!! Love the lighter ends.


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  8. Living in the now and enjoying every moment is not always easy so totally can relate. Thanks for sharing!



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