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I'm Steffy, and I live in my favorite place on earth, Long Beach NY with my two loves & our dachshund. In this space we share our adventures around NY, cozy days at home and tons of outfits! Grab a cup of coffee and lets get to know each other!


my bridal shower ♥

my mom and my two maids of honor, lacey and alex, planned my bridal shower. i knew it was going to be a tea party, but i didn't know too many other details, so it was really fun seeing all of their cute projects and games that they made! the place was absolutely adorable, and i could tell how hard they all worked to make it perfect for me! i had been looking forward to it for a few months, and the day went by in the blink of an eye. i actually remember checking the time and being a little sad that only 30 minutes were left!

lacey had everyone play a game of "he said/she said" where they lifted a moustache for quotes from matt and lips for quotes from me. then alex had everyone play an add libs game from a vintage magazine. we ate some yummy salads and sandwiches, and then my mom had everyone play "pin the ring on the groom" and "guess steffy's age." at the end we opened gifts and matt and my dad/brothers/ future father-in-law came! i will always cherish these photos, and remember how beautiful it felt to be surrounded by my closest friends in celebration of matt and i. it's a day i imagined in my head since i was a little girl. the light was perfectly shining into the room we were in, and the little tea pots had the most delicious tea. ♥ i honestly couldn't ask for better friends or family.

my dress was from modcloth, and shoes from anthro.


  1. Sweet! The games must have been super fun, you have always been so adorable! The decoration and venue are just perfect, so pretty and feminine, so you!

    Cee. ♥
    Code Overdressed

  2. This looks so lovely! Sounds like you had an amazing time xo

  3. Aw it looks like such a cute shower!

    xo Jennifer

  4. Congratulation!!! pretty this place and pics love.
    Thanks for your comment.

    Very soon.

  5. These photos are so beautiful. It looks like it was a wonderful time. I've been loving following your wedding as it continues to come together!

  6. This is so cute I can hardly stand it. That pic of you and Matt and you in the mirror is fantastic.

  7. This is so cute! You look so happy, and your outfit was just perfect. It looks like you had an amazing time.

    xoxo Amanda

  8. Oh what a wonderful bridal shower, congratulations lovely! I get married next July and my bridal shower is yet to be organised but a tea party is such a fabulous idea!

    Elizabeth x

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